Parenting Matters Now with Dr. Roger Smith

Do you often find yourself giving instructions filled with "don't" and "no"? Dr. Roger Smith challenges parents to adopt a positive communication style. This episode teaches you how to stop barking orders and start framing instructions in terms of the desired behavior. Instead of saying "Don't forget your lunch," learn to say "Remember your lunch." Discover this subtle but powerful shift that assumes competence, focuses on freedom, and fosters a more positive, effective way of giving directions to your children—and everyone else.
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Do your children ever drop embarrassing comments in public? Dr. Roger Smith uses the image of a private hedge to illustrate the difference between conversations appropriate for home and those suitable for the public square. This episode focuses on teaching children the crucial skill of discerning private versus public language and topics. Learn how to explain boundaries, context, and why certain jokes or lingo might be misunderstood outside of your family circle, helping your children avoid awkward situations and honor the family in public.
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Life rarely goes according to plan—from travel delays to spilled orange juice. Dr. Roger Smith argues that flexibility is a vital skill for both parents and children. While the early years require control and rules, this episode explores how to shift your parenting style to train your kids to manage options, cope with disappointment, and adjust when the path changes. Learn to model emotional balance when things go wrong, teaching your child that mistakes are not moral failures and that the ability to flex is key to enjoying the journey of life.
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Should your child get a smartphone? Dr. Roger Smith doesn't offer a simple yes or no, but instead provides crucial questions to help you make this difficult decision. This episode guides you to think about your child's long-term functional needs and whether those needs can be met without a smartphone. Most importantly, you'll learn to evaluate your child's capacity for self-imposed limits and the vital role of parental support systems in navigating the challenges of modern technology.
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Children are naturally self-focused, but thankfulness is a skill that can be taught. Dr. Roger Smith shares a powerful family tradition—the "Birthday Blessing"—that trained his children to move from self-centeredness to generosity of spirit. Learn how to implement this simple practice where every family member shares what they value and appreciate about the birthday person. This exercise in expressing positive, specific words to people you can see is the perfect foundation for developing a lifelong attitude of gratitude that extends to all areas of life.
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Tired of the whine? Dr. Roger Smith tackles this perpetual (but solvable!) problem in communication. This episode offers a direct, two-part strategy: First, stop whining yourself—listen to your own voice to ensure you aren't correcting your child with a whiny tone. Second, address the issue directly and consistently. Learn how to gently yet firmly request a "normal voice," reinforcing appropriate communication while refusing to reward the whine. Dr. Smith provides tips on how to identify the behavior for your child and correct it away from the heat of the moment for long-term success.
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Do you wish your kids were better listeners? Dr. Roger Smith explains that listening is a skill that needs development, especially in the early years. This episode goes beyond simply giving instructions. Learn practical techniques to train your child's attention to detail, from creating "listening games" at public events to telling stories about themselves. Discover how to use their own name and the world around them as positive tools to develop this crucial life skill—making them more attuned to you and their environment.
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Does a broken item immediately trigger your frustration? Dr. Roger Smith shares a personal story about a broken lamp to illustrate a vital parenting lesson: how to handle the emotional loss when things—or even relationships—break. Learn to separate the action from the child's motive, comfort your child (and yourself) through the grief of loss, and then focus on finding creative solutions. This episode gives you a framework for turning an accident into an opportunity for repair, teaching your children resilience and problem-solving skills that last a lifetime.
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Did you know the way you touch your child profoundly affects their emotional health? Dr. Roger Smith explains that touch is one of the most powerful ways to fill a child's emotional tank, but warns that touch used only for anger or discipline can become powerfully negative. He shares a study that ranks different types of touch, revealing that a gentle hand on the head or face is often perceived as the most genuine sign of care and concern. Learn how to use deliberate, positive touch—from holding hands to a comforting head scratch—to continually express your sincere love for your children at every age.
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Are your children good at noticing the world around them? Dr. Roger Smith shares a moment by a canal in Manchester to explain how you can train your kids to be observant detectives. Learn how to use everyday objects and environments—like a mysterious ring on a wall—to encourage curiosity, ask great questions, and piece together the story of their surroundings. Start with scavenger hunts and simple questions to give your children an important life skill: observation.
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